We know that you’re both in terrible pain. But we need to say something to both of you

Feel the pain, but don’t allow it to give you the false impression that Hashem isn’t in this tzarah with you

I guess I can’t ask you to keep it open every week, just in case, but maybe I can

I wonder what you would do if you read this letter. But I’ll never find out

And there we sat, you and I, for the next six Yom Kippurim — a wonderful “table shidduch”

“I have to be honest with you, dear. It just seems problematic to me that you’d want to take it easy at this age”

My heart skipped a beat. Sudden tears pricked my eyelids. What was coming next? What didn’t I know?

I thought that divorce meant saying goodbye to one person in your life

“Please keep in mind that dan l’chaf zechus relates to parents as well”

“I promise you, it’s harder for me to speak to you than it is for you to speak to me”

Should I have gone to visit you? Should I have ignored my concern that you wouldn’t want to see people? Should I have realized you might not make it to Sunday?